Let’s think about this a second. We always think it’s better on the other side. The Joneses, yeah, they got it right. They got it all together. But we know better. They don’t have it all together. Actually it’s probably close to falling apart. But we don’t want that to happen either, do we? NO, we really don’t.
No spin doctor here. Listen to this news. The Joneses DON’T have it all together. Stop worrying about the Joneses. Be authentic. Live your life. The life YOU were meant to live. Things in your life can change but in order for that to happen you need to change. You need a different light to shine. That light is your perspective. Your thought process.
“Comparison is the thief of joy.”
I could also add the quote “Comparison is the thief of joy”. Stop comparing. Live the life you were born to live. YOU. You are a Child of the Universe. YOU. Comparing is insecurity. Pure and simple. Be grateful for who you are and what you have. Even the simplest of thank you’s will carry you.
“Thank you for my legs, so I can walk to the bus to get to work.”
“Thank you for my ears, so I can hear the beautiful music in the elevator.”
“Thank you for my mother who shows me how to be compassionate.”
“Thank you for the friend who has shared her life with me.”
They will find you.
If you need to change something, change it. But after you change it, live in it for awhile where you’re at. Our behavior is only our habits… which we have formed… on autopilot. If you move on before changing your behavior, your troubles will follow you. They know your address. They WILL find you. Because they are YOUR troubles. Remember the definition of insanity – “Doing the same thing but expecting different results.”
The grass is greener because a different light is shining on it. Your light. Your refreshed and renewed light.